How To Know if Your Lady Cheats on You

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One day you wake up in the middle of the night hearing somebody is talking in the bathroom. You get up, go to the restroom, and hear your girlfriend saying another man how much she loves him. Your heart is broken. You return to your bed but cannot sleep anymore. Now you realize that all your suspicions have become real. Your girl is cheating on you.
Women and men usually cheat for numerous reasons. However, today we will not talk about it. Most women never cheat, but some women do. Whatever reason it might be, the question remains the same. How to know if a girl cheats on you? How to know it in advance so that to be prepared and take all necessary precautions in advance? Let us figure out the most common signs that will help you to know whether your woman cheats on you.
1. She changes appearance: When you started dating, your girlfriend did her best to look incredible for you and unswervingly conquered your heart. After a few month of being together, it seems that she stops caring about her appearance so much as before. It is a normal situation. You suddenly noticed that your dear girl began dressing in a special way that no longer match your desired specs. It seems that she might go out to affect another man. Her new way of dressing is another man’s specs.
2. She does not care anymore: Women always care about the slightest details in their relationships. She cares about the number of times you kiss or call her per day. Your woman gets furious when you disremember significant dates in your mutual life. She cares about pet names and compliments for everything. Therefore, when your girlfriend for any reason, stops paying attention to the fact that you did not call her or forgot your special anniversary date, or that you did not add those special pecks and pets as usual, you are to start worrying. Someone else might be doing it for you.
3. She suddenly starts spending more time with her cell phone in your presence: If you unavoidably spend every evening glaring at your girlfriend while she reels between Twitter and Facebook replying to each message, do not be too swift to write her behavior off as a sign of cheating. All people are surely guilty of being so absorbed in digital lives that we do not care about the present moment. However, if she suddenly begins communicating with her Twitter friends more than you do during your dates, it may point to the absence of investment in your relationship from her side. Maybe, her heart starts approaching another man.
4. She Does not Want Sex Anymore; It is a different thing if she never wanted sex from the beginning which might also mean she never wanted you in the first place. Undoubtedly, all couples always adore having sex in a relationship. It is evident there are chances of deceitfulness if your girlfriend completely loses interest to intimacy with you. If she cannot explain this by any rational reasons, it is a clear sign that your lady has already been having sex with somebody else.
5. She wears sexier panties: When a woman begins a new relationship, she starts feeling hotter. Thus, she will surely buy more erotic panties and fantastic bras. There is a great pleasure for every woman to conduct herself sexier. In this case, women also unexpectedly change perfumes and begin wearing make-up differently. At the same time, you realize that these unusual changes are not for you. Now this is high time to start thinking about whether your girl cheats on you. Because you clearly understand, it is not you who will take off her sexy panties.
6. She Becomes Super Busy: Suddenly, your girlfriend becomes so busy that she cannot find any time to have either a lunch or dinner with you during a week. However, a month ago she was happy to have the smallest opportunity of spending more time together. Now you apparently see her working schedule is not open to you anymore. It is a clear sign that your lady either cheats on you with another man or desires to stop the relationship with you. Everyone knows that when a woman is in love, she will destroy a mountain just to devote a few minutes to her beloved one. Hence, if your girlfriend starts excusing why she has no time to see you, then she must be seeing somebody else.
7. She Abruptly Begins Having Top-Secret calendar: The minute your girlfriend becomes private in her calendar, it will clearly show you that she is hiding something from you. She stops telling you about all her possible location and has plenty of unexplained business trips. In this case, you should start worrying, as she might spend her “official journeys” with another “colleague.”
8. She starts sidestepping your questions When your girlfriend begins sidestepping simple questions, there are high chances that she is trying to hide the truth. Not answering your questions is an evident sign that your girlfriend is lying. Moreover, if you keep it up with the questions, she could also act protectively. When your woman is afraid of being caught, she will get self-protective. Therefore, your lady will take as an accusation anything you say to her.
9. She spends less time with your mutual friends or family: When your girlfriend starts detaching herself from the family, there is a strong indication that she is cheating. Your sweetheart might also stop communicating with your friends because of the intense fear to be caught on cheating since warning sign of guilt may be obvious for them.
10. She starts to nag frequently: If your woman starts another relationship, she might have a tendency to bother as she loses ability to communicate harmoniously because of constant stress. At this situation, your girlfriend will lash out at the smallest reason. In this way, she could try to show you that your relationship does not work any longer.
11. She begins having weird friends: If your girlfriend starts to meet secretive friends who take all her time, there are high chances that she cheats on you. She might keep saying that this is a colleague or a fitness friend. As long as she does not wish to reveal more information, it is a straight indicative sign that she is dating someone else.
Conclusion Undoubtedly, a complete lack of trust will doom any flawlessly good relationship to catastrophe. However, if you have true reasons for doubting that your girlfriend cheats on you, then the sooner you know it, the better. If you wish to identify she is untrue, follow these rules to discover it. Also, remember – life continues. May be you did not treat your queen well; maybe, you have not yet found your real love!
Curled from: Stella Amaechi
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15 Replies to “How To Know if Your Lady Cheats on You”

    1. 15. The moment you smell lies she is cheating already abi! (Summary).
      Just live your life jare. Prepare to make excuses for her ahead to save your self from unnecessary trauma.

  1. #4.. I know a lady who suddenly lost interest in having sex with her partner, she wasn’t necessarily cheating. Just lost interest. Nice piece Mr Steve 👍

    1. She lost interest just like that.. Hmmm! And she now became a lesbian abi?After many years of sumptuous sessions, she lost interest. Hmmm someone is doing a better job joor!

  2. I think cheating in relationship is a common thing in both gender. However. It is rampant in men than women. Haven said that, cheating begins when secrets are kept from each other. So, better assume your partner is cheating on you, and give your self rest of mind. Than digging up dead body you can’t leave with.
    Nice write up, Kudos Sir.

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